Wednesday, January 25, 2012

post holiday season

I have been so so busy at work! Have not really been on for weeks to check any fun blogs on here.   With it being so busy (and extremely cold) we kind of let DD fall to the way side.   I have been acting SO bad and he hasn't even threatened a spanking, or issued any kind of punishments.   I don't act that way on purpose.  I actually was really good for almost 2 weeks after our bootcamp attempt.  But with such high stress at home and our jobs I guess we are trying just to get by.  Can it be Feb. yet?!?!?! I don't have a reason for Feb. to be better, maybe just one month closer to being warm. 

On a very sad note, my little bunny of three years died this week.  I'm still having a hard time with it.  Our dogs have been extra loving, I think they can sense our sadness.  My little boy bunny is left with out a friend for now but after a month we will find a rescue bunny for him.  He is hit hardest of all, since they spent every minute together.

I will try to read some blogs tonight and catch up on everyone.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Attempted Boot-camp

So as I posted earlier, we were going to try to do a mini boot camp the first two days of the new year. We did not get home until 2:30am on the first, and slept in and just wanted to hang out and clean.  We didn't get a whole lot of cleaning done but did lots of cuddling and playing with the dogs.

On the second day we tried to do some scheduled spankings, no homework (we kinda forget to put those together).  I received a "very hard" spanking, later on a medium spanking, and ended the night with a hard one.  We found out a couple of things.  Every time we use the paddle I bruise(so far).  They don't hurt just looks funny.  He found out he can make me listen with his hand, and he found out just how hard he needs to spank to do that!  He previously thought he would have to use the paddle to get me to understand and "get there" but not anymore! 

It was good but I don't think either of us want to do that again(for a while), just regular maintenance and punishments when I need them. 

On another note, I got a real spanking for not doing the tasks he assigned to me.  I think he felt better about spanking after our "tiny-not-really-boot-camp" experience. He knew exactly how to get me where I needed to be to be actually sorry.  I'm also on the schedule for being spanked tonight too.  He gave me some tasks. I didn't do them. He let me go out to the hot spring with my two besties (it's a very rare occurrence for all 3 of us to be able to do something like this so it was allowed), and I had a chance to do what he asked yesterday in addition to what I had to do today, or my "hard" was going to turn into a "severe".  That got my attention.   So I have been plugging away at my tasks, even though I don't really feel well.  Not all the way sick, just a little, you know where you would rather just be cuddled in blankets with the dogs and a movie?  Dishes, clothes, floors and various other house chores are waiting for me on my day off tomorrow and I just want to sleep all day. But at least I won't have a Severe!!

It was such a busy week, but all month will be slow (Jan. is worst sales month) so I will have time to catch up on everything.  Thanks for listening!

~Anna