Last week, in addition to my blog question, I posted a couple questions to Clint of http://learningdd.blogspot.com/ which he, as always, answered very logically. I sent a copy of the questions and his answers to my hubby. He read the whole thing (which surprised me, Clint's answers are long!) and said it really made sense. That made me really happy that he was able to understand how I was feeling and was receptive to take steps towards a better relationship.
On a different note, I read on someone's blog (can't quite remember) that they had used a shoe horn as an implement. As it happens I know where to get a perfect one! We talked about Clint's suggestions and what he thought of them on the way home, and told him what I had got, he laughed and told me it might be good.
Sunday started off wonderfully! We actually got to sleep in a little, and while I took the dogs out and feed them, he was actually getting ready to spank me! I was a little surprised. He had me kennel the dogs and come back to our bedroom. He had quite the line up waiting for me! Instead of using his hand for a warm up, he went for a 12 in. flogger? I think that's what it is, which was very stingy and worked well in both our opinions to warm the whole area up. Then he gave me about 2 mins. worth of quick hard spanks, and let that sink in.
With that done with he moved on to this new thing which I decided would be WAY less painful than the
bathbrush.
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HOLY MOLY did that thing hurt! It was like a inch and half blaze of fire every time it struck! This had me crying so quickly! He did the set amount (I was not in a state to remember the first ones!) then told me it looked like this was getting through to me, so we'll go ahead and do 20 more, that's just ten on each cheek sweetie. He asked if it was alright, I nodded and gave a very meek yes sir. He rubbed and comforted me for a few minutes then asked me to stand of the end of the bed. I did it but with a questioning look. That's when the BB came out. He told me that 20 with the paddle will finish my punishment.
I think that prior to the extra paddling was the most he has ever spanked me at one time. My butt was actually sore, very hot and I did not like his idea at all! But we got through and afterward we felt so close. I felt like my weeks worth of not listening, not getting things done and having an attitude were all washed away.
Before bed he made sure to wash some more of that away and I now feel like the shoe horn could just disappear and never come back. The second one was not as long but I still went to bed with a warm fanny.
This morning we went through another session like sunday morning, to make sure I would be on top of things at work. So going back to the title of this post, be careful what you wish for. I'm kinda happy he doesn't really go reading blogs and learning more than I want him to! But in all seriousness, I'm happy he is giving me some direction and incentive to do good work!
Thanks for reading, sorry it was kinda long!
~Anna
