Okay ladies,
How do your husbands find the time to discipline you!?!? It has been a really stressful 2 weeks and one of the main reasons is we leave early and get home late (we drive in together everyday). So when he works at 9am I get off at 7pm go to store and get home its almost 9 and we are cranky, cook, eat, clean, play with dogs, take care of the rabbit and BOOM we are so exhausted we are asleep before we hit the pillow. We don't even have time for maintenance much less discipline.
Him just pushing through and doing it while tired is not gonna fly. He is so grumpy and mean when he is tired!!
Any tips would be appreciated!
Surely you don't work 7 days a week. That should leave you two days to catch up on your lovemaking AND discipline. A well disciplined wife is a good and loving wife. Don't ever lose sight of that.
ReplyDeletePick a time on the weekend or your day off and if you both agree to it, make it a priority. We used to hate "scheduling" discipline but right now because of mutually busy schedules it works for us. On the day that you pick, perhaps even try to choose the daytime sometimes. It gives this interesting opportunity for more communication after as you go through the rest of the day together and more easily talk about the stresses you are both facing. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteReuter- we only get sunday off and usually we are super busy cleaning and playing with the dogs, and its his day to do his hobby (which isnt spanking :( hehe) I will tell him your quote, i like it!
ReplyDeleteSusie- I'll suggest this to him, sunday morning after the dogs eat, start coffee, get a spanking then enjoy our day :)
Thanks you guys!
Have you thought once or twice a week taking a half hour nap after dinner to recharge your batteries and then have play time. Good luck. Even if you two were in a vanilla relationship,you need more couple time.
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FD, don't I know it! This has been a really tough year, we opened a business and are really determined for it to succeed, and to do that takes more hours than I would ideally like to work :( and we have cut corners as far as even though our schedules only are one to two hours apart we still drive just one vehicle into town to save on gas. That one or two hours would give me so much more time with my doggies and to clean up the house a little before he gets home. I would love to nap but if I were to go down I would probably not get back up! I will try your suggestion when I am still stuck at work waiting for him, instead of having an extra hour on the computer I'll try to sleep!
ReplyDeleteThank you for the suggestion! and for following my blog! I am still very new at this!
A business can be very time consuming starting out. When he comes to pick you up, can he discipline you right there? Are you alone at that time? Then back at home it would be all "couple time" with business already dealt with.
ReplyDeleteThat's a really great idea, only problem is our landlord lives above our business so that is a no-go :( I think a really big thing was I was getting burnt out. I took a day off and things are better. Thank you Stormy!
ReplyDeleteWe both work too and have a child, it is hard sometimes but we manage to find the time somehow!
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