I have not kept up with any DD related posts because, honestly, there has been no DD in our marriage.
My husband won't spank me, or even issue any type of discipline anymore. He says I have too high of a pain tolerance (spanking I guess I do, you should see me scream when I get stung by a bee or stub my toe) and it takes too long to spank me to submission.
I have no rules anymore, I just do what I want, which even when I want to be good I feel like there is no reason, he won't take the time to correct me if I do a poor job on this or that.
I basically begged him to do even corner time but he is just not interested anymore. I read the book "The Submissive Wife" but it's just so hard when he doesn't notice or care.
He says he shouldn't have to discipline me, I should manage myself, he doesn't have time to be in charge of me and him. How can I get him to understand it's not being in charge of me, but helping and guiding me to be a better person? I know there has to be some long time LDD ladies out there that have dealt with this before.
Thanks for listening, I needed to vent but would also like to get input.