Yikes! 1st Spanking.

Good morning!  Today it finally warmed up! Last night as he picked me up from work I thought, oh this is weird, the cold is not biting my nose off, and it was only 2 below!!! We had over a week of 30 below temps and this was a very nice surprise!!  The dogs were so ready to play now that their poor lil paws aren't freezing to the ground :P But I was not ready to run around just yet, so we played in the house.  A nice way to start Thanksgiving weekend! I am thankful it warmed up!!! I really can't stress enough how hard it is when it's -30 for that long haha

So last night he put the dogs in the kennel before bed.  I looked at him like are you crazy? They are sleeping with us!  He said they will and asked me to the bed.  He had read most of the pertinent articles on Clint's blog and decided tonight was the night. I almost cried as I was laying down but tried to stay calm because I knew this was for me being completely unruly the other day.  The other day when I thought those rules we made months ago didn't count for anything anymore.  I had pajama pants on and he told me my behaviour that day was unacceptable, no more rude texts, rude comments, pouting and whining.

We spank for fun all the time so I thought this would be a walk in the park.  I wondered why all those girls put their hands back, or kick.  He started out with "potches" as we call them.  Then they got to 1/2 strength.  Okay still good I mean they hurt but not so bad.   Then came 3/4 strength. I'm crying but no tears.  A few more and I reached my hand back.  He just took it gently and held it to his leg also gently.  I can feel my bottom heating up and I'm not kicking but kinda just wiggling around (as if that would help).  Still no tears and he asks me to go get the bath brush. I said you mean a wooden spoon? He said no I mean the brush. No really, the spoon you mean??? Brush. Okay I'll get your brush. 

Now I did a practice swat on myself to see how horrible this brush really was- and IT HURT! lol I was like lets just forget we bought this thing.  He didn't forget I guess.  Those did not feel very nice but still no tears.  When he stopped (after about 20 I think but I was not counting) I had tears in my eyes but I wasn't crying.  I think we need to work on warming up because I did have a little bruise, but it doesn't hurt.  He was really nice about holding me and comforting me, but it was a little disappointing that I didn't get that "release" that other wives talk about. Needless to say, I will not be eager for the next one BUT we are doing a major overhaul of behaviours so I am expecting more anyway.